Hi lovely one’s out there!  My story will be broken down in parts, as I have so many details to share. First of all, I hope to give you strength and encouragement for caregivers and patients.  I was a caregiver and am now a cancer patient.  I do not need sympathy. I have learned so much on my journey. I never thought of myself as being strong. Or being in charge. But I was planted there, in situations that defied my being!  Like a little seed sprouting. Which way do I grow?

I guess I have always been an empathetic and caring person. I was a dental hygienist for almost 50 years.  Now don’t go shaking your head!  I was not just the ordinary one.  I treated patients gently and took care of many who were petrified of cleanings.  Plus, add on the fact that I had a very special gift. I worked with severely disabled people who needed a special touch.  I was truly blessed and worked with them as they grew from children to adults.  I loved them as I loved my own children.  Long story, the state felt that special needs people did not need good dental care and I was forced to retire.  I learned a lot about compassion and caring.

I also worked in a very nice dental office.  Almost 30 years. People were family to me.  I saw children grow up and get married and have children of their own.  It has been a wonderful journey. I had to retire because of Covid.  Good thing I am retired!  The way things worked out, I am ok. I will get into that another time!
For now, that’s it. I will lead into being a caregiver next.
✨Shine on everyone!

Pat Yagmin